Negative Traits Vs. Inner Self Qualities

 

Fear based	Love based
Negative judgments and projections	Choosing love, acceptance, positive life
Compulsive, being driven, stress	Having a choice, allowing, relaxing
Having to be "perfect"	Accepting one's humanness
Anger	Forgiveness of oneself -- accepting one's feelings, needs and limitations
Resentment	Gratitude, appreciation
Being successful, better, ambitious	Being true to one's Self, authentic
Needing to control, sense of limitation	Freedom, space, openness
Competitive materialistic values	Heart-centered, life-oriented values
Feeling lack, deficiency	Feeling self-worth, wholeness
Anxiety	Peace
Feeling isolation, separation	Connection, communication
Contracting, defending	Trusting, opening
Self-doubt	Self-confidence, trusting instincts and intuitions
Guilt, shame	Self-acceptance, self-forgiveness
"Using" and being "used"	Integrity, respect, being true to one's self
Living by other's expectations, values	Living by one's own values and beliefs
Struggle to achieve ends	Flow, things falling into place
The "rat race", success = happiness	A simpler harmonious natural life

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